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Rise After Betrayal: Reclaim Your Power & Thrive Infidelity may have shaken your world, but you are meant for more than just healing—you are meant to rise. This podcast is your space to break free from the pain, reclaim everything you let go of along the way, and step boldly into your power. It’s time to rediscover joy, freedom, and fulfillment and build a life that’s fully yours. You are not broken—you are becoming. Join me, someone who’s walked this path too, as I guide you through proven strategies to reclaim your confidence, identity and self-worth. You can rise up and reign stronger and happier than you were before! Ready to rediscover yourself? Download your free ”Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit” at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start your journey today!
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Betrayal Recovery 101: What Every Woman Needs to Know – Part 2
You’ve heard the saying, time heals all wounds—but when it comes to betrayal trauma, that couldn’t be further from the truth. If you’re waiting for time to magically fix the devastation, the triggers, and the self-doubt, you’ll stay stuck.
In this eye-opening episode, betrayal recovery coach Lora Cheadle exposes the myths about healing after infidelity and explains why waiting, numbing out, or ignoring the pain won’t work. Instead, she shares the exact tools and strategies to take control of your recovery, rebuild your confidence, and step into your power NOW.
Top Takeaways:
- Why betrayal is NOT a relationship crisis—it’s a full-body trauma
- The biggest mistake most betrayed women make (and how to avoid it)
- Why traditional therapy often fails in betrayal recovery—and what to do instead
- The difference between coping and true healing (Hint: Most women get stuck in coping!)
- How to break the toxic cycle of waiting—for closure, for change, for him to wake up
- The 4 long-term recovery strategies to reclaim your identity and rebuild your self-worth
This is the second episode in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—be sure to subscribe so you don’t miss Part 3!
📌 Download your FREE Betrayal Recovery Guide now: betrayalrecoveryguide.com
🔔 Subscribe, Rate & Review: If this episode spoke to you, share it with a friend and leave a review—it helps other women find the support they need!
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:
Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
💬 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
🔗 Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
✨ Special Offers from Our Sponsors! ✨
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise Up, Reclaim Your Story, & Reign as the Queen of your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it doesn’t define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I will walk by your side, giving you the perspective, permission, and wisdom to transform your betrayal into something profoundly empowering. Whether you work with me one-on-one or complete my Affair Recovery Programs from the privacy of your home, you’ll gain the tools to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your healing starts now! Learn more at:
👉 www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
🔗 Visit www.LoraCheadle.com for more resources & inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021
• Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019
Are you tired of living a life dictated by others? What if you could break free and be who you are? If you've felt trapped by expectations and long to be free, FLAUNT! is the key to unlocking who you are, expressing yourself authentically, and choreographing your life your way.
Unleash the power within and embrace your true self with this transformative guide that empowers you to strip away societal expectations and discover your authentic, smart, sexy, and spiritual self. Through a unique blend of humor, wisdom, and actionable steps, you can uncover your deepest desires and build the confidence to live a life full of passion and purpose.
Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.
It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike. Available on Amazon. Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com
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Sunday Mar 23, 2025
Sunday Mar 23, 2025
The first 30 days after discovering infidelity feel like an emotional tsunami—shock, rage, grief, and an overwhelming sense of uncertainty. But what you do (and don’t do) during this time can set the foundation for your healing journey.
In this power-packed episode, betrayal recovery coach and advocate Lora Cheadle walks you through the critical dos and don’ts of the first-month post-discovery. Learn how to stabilize your emotions, avoid common mistakes that keep women stuck, and reclaim your personal power—without waiting for closure, clarity, or your partner to change.
Top Takeaways:
- What NOT to do in the first 30 days (including the #1 mistake most women make!)
- How to regulate your nervous system using somatic healing and hypnotic meditation
- Why legal and financial clarity is crucial—even if you don’t plan on leaving
- How to reclaim your agency, set healthy boundaries, and start healing on your terms
- The powerful FLAUNT! framework to rediscover yourself beyond betrayal
This episode is the first in a 4-part series on betrayal recovery—so be sure to subscribe and tune in next week for Part 2!
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit
Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
Special Announcement! Book Release
Don’t miss the release of Lora Cheadle’s new book, “It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery.
https://workplace-burnout.com/its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-5-tools-to-fuel-up-thrive/
Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com.
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
Special Offers from Our Sponsors!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.
I’m here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you’ll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter.
Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help, 2021
- Tattered Cover Bestseller, 2019
Have you spent your life playing by the rules, only to realize those rules weren’t made for you? What if you could break free—from expectations, from betrayal, from the roles you were taught to play—and reclaim your true self?
FLAUNT! is your guide to stripping away societal conditioning, healing from the heartbreak of betrayal, and rediscovering the fierce, confident woman you were born to be. With humor, wisdom, and powerful, actionable steps, Lora Cheadle empowers you to rise above the narratives that have confined you and boldly choreograph a life that is smart, sexy, spiritual, and uniquely your own.
It’s time to stop living for others and start living for you.
Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.
It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive
Burnout isn’t just exhaustion—it’s a betrayal of your time, energy, and trust. This essential guide redefines burnout, exposing its hidden roots and equipping individuals, teams, and leaders with five powerful tools to reclaim their passion, purpose, and well-being.
If you’re ready to break free from burnout and step into a life of clarity, confidence, and fulfillment, this book is your roadmap.
Available now on Amazon. Download your free guide, BURNOUT UNCOVERED: Fostering Candid Conversations for Teams at www.ItsNotBurnoutItsBetrayal.com.
Learn more at www.loracheadle.com and follow me across all social!
Sunday Mar 16, 2025
Sunday Mar 16, 2025
In this episode of Flaunt! Find Your Sparkle After Infidelity or Betrayal, Lora Cheadle interviews Emmy award-winning journalist and podcast host Natalie Tysdal about navigating life’s biggest challenges, including career burnout, betrayal, and personal transformation. Natalie shares her journey of leaving a toxic career in television news to pursue meaningful work that aligns with her values. She discusses the importance of health—physical, emotional, and relational—and how women can prioritize their well-being while balancing life’s demands. The conversation touches on the power of stillness, habits, and surrounding yourself with supportive, trustworthy people.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- The Three-Question Test for Change
If you’re questioning whether to stay in a job, relationship, or situation, ask yourself:- Am I happy? (Do I feel joy and fulfillment?)
- Am I proud of what I’m doing? (Does it align with my values?)
- Am I challenged in a healthy way? (Is it helping me grow?)
If the answer to any of these is “no,” it may be time for a change.
- Reframe Your Perspective with “I Get To” Instead of “I Have To”
Shifting from “I have to exercise” to “I get to move my body” transforms obligations into privileges. This mindset shift fosters gratitude, joy, and motivation for self-care and personal growth. - Create Stillness & Build Healthy Habits Through Habit Stacking
Finding moments of stillness is essential for clarity and well-being, but it’s challenging in a busy life. Use habit stacking to build new positive habits by pairing them with existing ones (e.g., stretch while waiting for coffee to brew, meditate while brushing your teeth). Small, consistent changes lead to transformation over time.
Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth.
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Roadmap & Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
About Natalie Tysdal:
Natalie Tysdal loves helping people find ways to improve their lives. Shew is an expert in getting to the truth and finding the right resources to help people become all they are meant to be.
She is an Emmy Award-winning news anchor, producer, and reporter with a 28-year legacy in broadcast journalism. Known for her journalistic integrity and engaging storytelling, Natalie has built a trusted reputation as a dynamic voice in media.
As a mom of three, Natalie blends her professional expertise with personal experience, making her relatable and inspiring to audiences. She is the host of The Natalie Tysdal Podcast, where she explores topics at the heart of everyday life—health, family, and faith.
Through her media company, Natalie extends her passion for communication to support businesses with marketing strategies, crisis communications, and podcast coaching and development. Whether on-screen, behind the scenes, or working with brands, Natalie’s mission is to create impactful connections and meaningful conversation.
Special Announcement! Book Release
Don’t miss the release of Lora Cheadle’s new book, “It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive,”. This essential guide differentiates between burnout and betrayal, offering five transformative steps to recovery.
https://workplace-burnout.com/its-not-burnout-its-betrayal-5-tools-to-fuel-up-thrive/
Get your free downloadable guide on the “The Top Three Ways You Betray Yourself Every Day, and How to Stop” at www.burnoutorbetrayal.com.
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband’s fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
Special Offers from Our Sponsors!
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise, Reclaim, and Reign as the Queen of Your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it does not define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are more than capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy.
I’m here to walk beside you, giving you the perspective, permission, and proven tools to transform betrayal into your greatest awakening. Whether through one-on-one coaching or my on-demand Affair Recovery Programs, you’ll gain the guidance and support to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter.
Your transformation starts now! Learn more at www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com and visit www.LoraCheadle.com for even more resources and inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
Sunday Mar 09, 2025
Sunday Mar 09, 2025
Women often put everyone else first—until betrayal forces them to rethink everything. In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle and forensic accountant Tracy Coenen break down why investing in yourself isn't just necessary—it's critical for financial security, emotional well-being, and reclaiming your power after infidelity or divorce. From finding hidden assets to making empowered financial choices, this episode is packed with insights to help you confidently navigate this transition.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- You only get one shot at a fair divorce settlement – learn how to advocate for yourself and make informed decisions.
- Most women feel financially overwhelmed – but simple steps (like getting account statements) can empower you.
- Investing in expert support saves money & stress – discover why strategic financial and emotional investments pay off big time.
Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth.
🔗 Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today!
Hashtags:
#BetrayalRecovery #DivorceSupport #WomenAndMoney #ReclaimYourPower #FinancialFreedom #InfidelityHealing #EmpoweredWomen #ForensicAccounting #SelfWorth #InvestInYourself
About Tracy Coenen:
TRACY’S MISSION IS TO HELP WOMEN GET BETTER FINANCIAL OUTCOMES IN THEIR DIVORCES
Tracy Coenen is a nationally recognized CPA and forensic accountant. She focuses on finding hidden money in divorce cases and teaches women how to understand their finances so they can get better divorce settlements.
Tracy’s work has been featured on CNBC, CBS, FOX, ABC, and NBC, as well as in Forbes, The Wall Street Journal, USA Today, and The Washington Post.
Tracy shows you how to get the right financial information so you can be confident in your knowledge and fight for the money you deserve in your divorce.
Download your FREE Divorce Money Guide at: https://divorcemoneyguide.com/
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:
Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
💬 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
🔗 Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
✨ Special Offers from Our Sponsors! ✨
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise Up, Reclaim Your Story, & Reign as the Queen of your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it doesn’t define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I will walk by your side, giving you the perspective, permission, and wisdom to transform your betrayal into something profoundly empowering. Whether you work with me one-on-one or complete my Affair Recovery Programs from the privacy of your home, you’ll gain the tools to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your healing starts now! Learn more at:
👉 www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
🔗 Visit www.LoraCheadle.com for more resources & inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021
• Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019
Are you tired of living a life dictated by others? What if you could break free and be who you are? If you've felt trapped by expectations and long to be free, FLAUNT! is the key to unlocking who you are, expressing yourself authentically, and choreographing your life your way.
Unleash the power within and embrace your true self with this transformative guide that empowers you to strip away societal expectations and discover your authentic, smart, sexy, and spiritual self. Through a unique blend of humor, wisdom, and actionable steps, you can uncover your deepest desires and build the confidence to live a life full of passion and purpose.
Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.
It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike. Available on Amazon. Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com
#HealingAfterBetrayal #InfidelitySupport #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #SelfWorthAfterBetrayal #EmpoweredHealing #RiseAndReclaim #HeartbreakToHealing #RebuildingTrust #MindBodyHealing #EnergyHealingForBetrayal #SelfLoveJourney #BreakFreeFromBetrayal #YouAreNotAlone MindsetShift #VisionFor2025 #FreeWorkshop #VisionBoard2025 #LoraCheadle #NewBookRelease
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Sunday Mar 02, 2025
Sunday Mar 02, 2025
After infidelity, you don’t just want to survive—you want to reclaim yourself, maybe your relationship, and thrive. Join Lora Cheadle, infidelity recovery advocate, and believer that women do not need to stuck in the devastation of betrayal forever, alongside renowned relationship therapist Terry Real, as they challenge misconceptions, cut through the noise, and help you take back your power.
In this episode, Terry Real breaks down why traditional therapy often fails betrayed partners, the difference between individual and relational empowerment, and how to advocate for yourself without getting stuck in blame or resentment. Whether you’re staying or leaving, you’ll learn to transform your pain into a catalyst for joy, confidence, and the life you truly deserve.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- Infidelity is a trauma, not a failure. Your pain is real, and healing starts with acknowledging the depth of your experience.
- Healing is about transformation, not just survival. The goal isn’t returning to what was—it’s creating something better, whether with or without your partner.
- Empowerment is relational, not individual. True healing comes when you reclaim your voice, set boundaries, and cultivate relationships that support your growth.
Tune in weekly for insights, expert interviews, and real-world tools to help you rise, reign, and reclaim your worth.
🔗 Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today!
#BetrayalRecovery #InfidelityHealing #RelationshipHealing #SelfLoveJourney #EmotionalHealing #RebuildTrust #LoveAfterBetrayal #RelationshipCoach #HealingFromInfidelity #MenAreFromMarsWomenAreFromVenus #JohnGray #RelationshipScience #LoveAndHormones #TheChemistryOfLove #BiohackingLove #NeuroscienceOfLove #PodcastEpisode #NewPodcast #PodcastInterview #ListenNow #HealingPodcast #PersonalGrowthPodcast #RelationshipPodcast #LoraCheadle #RiseAndReign
About Terry Real:
The author of four books, including the recent New York Times bestseller Us: Getting Past You and Me to Build a More Loving Relationship, Terry knows how to lead people on a step-by-step journey to greater intimacy and personal fulfillment.
His revolutionary approach to couples therapy, Relational Life Therapy, underpins all his books, courses, and teachings. RLT equips people with the powerful relational skills they need to make love work and cultivate authentic connections—to themselves, each other, and the planet as a whole.
A former senior faculty member of the Family Institute of Cambridge in Massachusetts and a retired Clinical Fellow of the Meadows Institute in Arizona, Terry has worked with thousands of individuals, couples, and fellow therapists. His extraordinary ability to save couples on the brink of divorce garnered Terry the reputation of “the turnaround guy,” and demand from other therapists to learn his RLT method skyrocketed.
To bring the remarkable results of RLT to as many people as possible, Terry established his Relational Life Institute. To date, thousands of mental health practitioners have benefited from a whole new perspective on couples therapy that has transformed their clients, their practice, and their own relationships.
Perhaps you’re looking for guidance on how to restore closeness in your relationship, or maybe you’re currently single but looking to learn the skills to build healthier connections.
Either way, you’re in the right place. Here, you’ll find a wealth of resources—from free resources to online courses, all designed to help you forge healthy, fulfilling relationships that last a lifetime.
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:
Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
💬 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
🔗 Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
✨ Special Offers from Our Sponsors! ✨
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise Up, Reclaim Your Story, & Reign as the Queen of your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it doesn’t define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I will walk by your side, giving you the perspective, permission, and wisdom to transform your betrayal into something profoundly empowering. Whether you work with me one-on-one or complete my Affair Recovery Programs from the privacy of your home, you’ll gain the tools to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your healing starts now! Learn more at:
👉 www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
🔗 Visit www.LoraCheadle.com for more resources & inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021
• Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019
Are you tired of living a life dictated by others? What if you could break free and be who you are? If you've felt trapped by expectations and long to be free, FLAUNT! is the key to unlocking who you are, expressing yourself authentically, and choreographing your life your way.
Unleash the power within and embrace your true self with this transformative guide that empowers you to strip away societal expectations and discover your authentic, smart, sexy, and spiritual self. Through a unique blend of humor, wisdom, and actionable steps, you can uncover your deepest desires and build the confidence to live a life full of passion and purpose.
Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.
It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike. Available on Amazon. Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com
#HealingAfterBetrayal #InfidelitySupport #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #SelfWorthAfterBetrayal #EmpoweredHealing #RiseAndReclaim #HeartbreakToHealing #RebuildingTrust #MindBodyHealing
#EnergyHealingForBetrayal #SelfLoveJourney #BreakFreeFromBetrayal #YouAreNotAlone MindsetShift #VisionFor2025 #FreeWorkshop #VisionBoard2025 #LoraCheadle #NewBookRelease
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Sunday Feb 23, 2025
Sunday Feb 23, 2025
Can science explain the breakdown of relationships after betrayal—and the path to rebuilding love? In this powerful episode, Lora Cheadle sits down with Dr. John Gray, author of Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus, to uncover the biological and emotional dynamics that shape relationships.
Dr. Gray reveals the hidden role of hormones in attraction, trust, and intimacy, explaining why betrayal impacts men and women differently. He shares actionable biohacks to restore connection, reignite passion, and help couples move from survival to sovereignty in their relationships. Whether you're recovering from infidelity or simply looking to strengthen your partnership, this episode is packed with science-backed strategies to create lasting love.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- Why men and women experience betrayal differently – and how hormonal imbalances fuel emotional disconnection.
- The surprising power of small acts – how daily, five-minute gestures can rebuild trust and intimacy.
- How to ‘biohack’ your relationship – simple techniques to increase testosterone in men and estrogen in women for greater love and desire.
🔗 Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today!
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About John Gray:
John Gray is the author of the most well-known and trusted relationship book of all time, Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus. USA Today listed his book as one of the top 10 most influential books of the last quarter century. In hardcover, it was the #1 bestselling book of the 1990s. Dr. Gray’s books are translated into approximately 45 languages in more than 100 countries and continues to be a bestseller.
Dr. Gray has written over 20 books. His most recent book is Beyond Mars and Venus. His Mars/Venus book series has forever changed the way men and women view their relationships.
John helps men and women better understand and respect their differences in both personal and professional relationships. His approach combines specific communication techniques with healthy, nutritional choices that create the brain and body chemistry for lasting health, happiness and romance.
His many books, blogs and free online workshops at MarsVenus.com provide practical insights to improve relationships at all stages of life and love. An advocate of health and optimal brain function, he also provides natural solutions for overcoming depression, anxiety and stress to support increased energy, libido, hormonal balance and better sleep.
He has appeared repeatedly on Oprah, as well as on The Dr. Oz Show, TODAY, CBS This Morning, Good Morning America, and others. He has been profiled in Time, Forbes, USA Today, and People. He was also the subject of a three-hour special hosted by Barbara Walters.
John Gray lives in Northern California, where for 34 years he happily shared his life with his beautiful wife, Bonnie, until her passing in 2018. They have three grown daughters and four grandchildren. He is an avid follower of his own health and relationship advice.
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:
Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
💬 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
🔗 Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
✨ Special Offers from Our Sponsors! ✨
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise Up, Reclaim Your Story, & Reign as the Queen of your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it doesn’t define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I will walk by your side, giving you the perspective, permission, and wisdom to transform your betrayal into something profoundly empowering. Whether you work with me one-on-one or complete my Affair Recovery Programs from the privacy of your home, you’ll gain the tools to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your healing starts now! Learn more at:
👉 www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
🔗 Visit www.LoraCheadle.com for more resources & inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021
• Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019
Are you tired of living a life dictated by others? What if you could break free and be who you are? If you've felt trapped by expectations and long to be free, FLAUNT! is the key to unlocking who you are, expressing yourself authentically, and choreographing your life your way.
Unleash the power within and embrace your true self with this transformative guide that empowers you to strip away societal expectations and discover your authentic, smart, sexy, and spiritual self. Through a unique blend of humor, wisdom, and actionable steps, you can uncover your deepest desires and build the confidence to live a life full of passion and purpose.
Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.
It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike. Available on Amazon. Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com
#HealingAfterBetrayal #InfidelitySupport #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #SelfWorthAfterBetrayal #EmpoweredHealing #RiseAndReclaim #HeartbreakToHealing #RebuildingTrust #MindBodyHealing
#EnergyHealingForBetrayal #SelfLoveJourney #BreakFreeFromBetrayal #YouAreNotAlone MindsetShift #VisionFor2025 #FreeWorkshop #VisionBoard2025 #LoraCheadle #NewBookRelease
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Sunday Feb 16, 2025
Sunday Feb 16, 2025
In this episode, Lora Cheadle welcomes Dr. Ray Doktor, a life and relationship coach, to explore the deep emotional work required to heal from betrayal. Together, they unpack why men often struggle to express emotions, how women can stop waiting for a partner’s “potential,” and the self-sabotaging patterns that keep people stuck.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- Healing Starts with You – Infidelity shakes your sense of self, but recovery begins by turning inward and rebuilding your relationship with yourself.
- Wishful Thinking vs. Reality – Many women hold onto their partner’s “potential,” but true healing comes from accepting who they really are, not who you wish they could be.
- Men and Emotional Avoidance – Many men avoid deep emotional work, opting for quick-fix pleasure (cheating, drinking, distractions) over true healing. A thriving relationship requires both partners to grow together.
🔗 Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today!
About Dr. Ray Doktor
Dr. Ray Doktor is a best-selling author whose book was published by the team behind the Chicken Soup for the Soul series. With a doctorate in clinical psychology and over 28 years of experience as a life and relationship coach, Dr. Ray has shared stages with some of the most influential voices in personal development, including Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, John Gray, and Eckhart Tolle. His expertise has been featured on the E Channel, HBO, and KCAL 9 Los Angeles, as well as in Psychology Today, Men’s Health, and the Los Angeles Times.
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About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:
Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
💬 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
🔗 Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
✨ Special Offers from Our Sponsors! ✨
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise Up, Reclaim Your Story, & Reign as the Queen of your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it doesn’t define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I will walk by your side, giving you the perspective, permission, and wisdom to transform your betrayal into something profoundly empowering. Whether you work with me one-on-one or complete my Affair Recovery Programs from the privacy of your home, you’ll gain the tools to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your healing starts now! Learn more at:
👉 www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
🔗 Visit www.LoraCheadle.com for more resources & inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021
• Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019
Are you tired of living a life dictated by others? What if you could break free and be who you are? If you've felt trapped by expectations and long to be free, FLAUNT! is the key to unlocking who you are, expressing yourself authentically, and choreographing your life your way.
Unleash the power within and embrace your true self with this transformative guide that empowers you to strip away societal expectations and discover your authentic, smart, sexy, and spiritual self. Through a unique blend of humor, wisdom, and actionable steps, you can uncover your deepest desires and build the confidence to live a life full of passion and purpose.
Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.
It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike. Available on Amazon. Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com
#HealingAfterBetrayal #InfidelitySupport #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #SelfWorthAfterBetrayal #EmpoweredHealing #RiseAndReclaim #HeartbreakToHealing #RebuildingTrust #MindBodyHealing
#EnergyHealingForBetrayal #SelfLoveJourney #BreakFreeFromBetrayal #YouAreNotAlone MindsetShift #VisionFor2025 #FreeWorkshop #VisionBoard2025 #LoraCheadle #NewBookRelease
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Sunday Feb 09, 2025
Sunday Feb 09, 2025
In this episode, Lora Cheadle dives deep into the emotional and physical complexities of intimacy after betrayal. Whether you're feeling completely turned off or caught in the cycle of hyperbonding, this episode will help you stop judging yourself, understand your emotional triggers, and shift your mindset around sex and self-worth. Learn how to reconnect with your body, reclaim your power, and move toward intimacy on your terms. Plus, Lora shares a three-week plan to help you navigate your emotions and rediscover desire in a way that feels safe, authentic, and freeing.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- Where You Are is Normal – Whether you feel disgusted, avoidant, or desperate to reconnect, your reaction to infidelity is a normal response to an abnormal situation. Healing starts with accepting where you are without judgment.
- Rebuilding Desire is About You, Not Your Partner – The key to getting the spark back isn’t forcing yourself into intimacy—it’s about reconnecting with your own pleasure, confidence, and body. Flirting, movement, and self-care are for you, not to "win" your partner’s attention.
- You Deserve Joy, Love, and Pleasure – Infidelity doesn’t define you. You have the right to set boundaries, to enjoy intimacy when it feels right, and to explore new, healthier dynamics in your relationship—on your terms.
🔗 Ready to reclaim yourself and your life after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today!
💬 Let’s Connect! Share your thoughts or questions with Lora at LoraCheadle.com.
🎙️ Subscribe, share, and tune in every week for more episodes on reclaiming your sparkle after betrayal.
🔗 Join the Affair Recovery for Women Facebook group for support and deeper conversations.
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💖 Mindful Souls Subscription Box – Use code LORA30 for 30% off at MindfulSouls.com
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Sunday Feb 02, 2025
Sunday Feb 02, 2025
Infidelity doesn’t just affect your heart—it impacts your body, mind, and energy in profound ways. In this episode, betrayal recovery coach and somatic attachment therapist Lora Cheadle sits down with functional medicine expert Filipa Bellette to explore the connection between burnout, betrayal trauma, and body-based healing. Learn why chronic stress, exhaustion, and even autoimmune issues often accompany betrayal—and discover practical, science-backed tools to help you reclaim your health, energy, and emotional stability.
Top 3 Takeaways:
- Betrayal Trauma & Burnout Are Linked – Many women mistake betrayal trauma for burnout, but the emotional devastation of infidelity triggers deep physiological responses that deplete your energy, gut health, and mental clarity.
- Your Body Holds the Key to Healing – If you feel exhausted, anxious, or stuck in obsessive thought loops, your dopamine levels and nervous system regulation may be the root cause. Learn how nutrition, functional medicine, and somatic healing can restore balance.
- You Can’t Heal in a Toxic Environment – Whether staying or leaving, true recovery requires a supportive environment. Learn how to identify hidden stressors, rebuild your nervous system, and protect your health as you navigate infidelity recovery.
🔗 Ready to heal your body and mind after betrayal? Download your free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit at BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and book a complimentary 30-minute consultation with Lora today!
#BetrayalRecovery #Burnout #SomaticHealing #InfidelityHealing #SelfWorth #BodyBasedHealing #LoraCheadle #FunctionalMedicine
About Filipa:
Filipa Bellette is Co-Founder of multi award-winning health practice Chris & Filly Functional Medicine - and author of Ending Body Burnout. She is an accredited Clinical Nutritionist, Functional Medicine Practitioner, Coach & Trauma Therapist. She is also a PhD Scholar & regularly featured in the media, such as the Today Show, nine.com.au, Forbes and Body+Soul.
Together with her husband Chris Bellette, Filipa has worked with over 2,500+ burned-out clients in the past combined 25+ years. Their practice is best known for ending body burnout (for good!) in “busy” people with energy, mood & gut issues, with their ROOT-root-cause approach. They were awarded as the Tasmanian State Winner & National Finalist for the Telstra Best of Business Awards 2022, as well as Winner for the Australian Women’s Small Business Champion Awards 2022.
Filipa’s own passion for helping “busy” people have more energy, productivity and connection, came from her own personal experience of body burnout, after juggling the demands of business, family, and her failing health.
Website - www.chrisandfilly.fm
FaceBook - https://www.facebook.com/chrisandfilly
Instagram - @chrisandfilly_fm
LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/filipa-bellette-73339019/
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit:
Find Relief, Reclaim Yourself, and Rewrite Your Story
Download your Betrayal Recovery Tool Kit at www.BetrayalRecoveryGuide.com and start reclaiming yourself and your life today!
💬 Let’s connect! Share your thoughts or questions from this episode with Lora at loracheadle.com. New episodes every week.
🔗 Subscribe, like, share, and join Lora Cheadle on your journey to reclaim your sparkle and create a life you love.
✨ Special Offers from Our Sponsors! ✨
Thank you to BetterHelp for sponsoring this podcast! Take charge of your mental health and get 10% off your first month of therapy at https://BetterHelp.com/FLAUNT
Are you ready to Rise Up, Reclaim Your Story, & Reign as the Queen of your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it doesn’t define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I will walk by your side, giving you the perspective, permission, and wisdom to transform your betrayal into something profoundly empowering. Whether you work with me one-on-one or complete my Affair Recovery Programs from the privacy of your home, you’ll gain the tools to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your healing starts now! Learn more at:
👉 www.AffairRecoveryForWomen.com
🔗 Visit www.LoraCheadle.com for more resources & inspiration.
READY TO START A BETTER CHAPTER? Step into the future you’ve always dreamed of with the power of transformative rituals with the Mindful Subscription Box. Get a monthly box full of crystals, aromatherapy, and other spiritual tools worth $120. You deserve high-quality gems, crystals, oils, and mindfulness tools for self-care that truly work. It’s a monthly dose of self-love delivered right to your door! Go to www.Mindfulsouls.com and use Discount Code LORA30 for 30% off your order!
- International Book Award, Finalist Motivational Self-Help 2021
• Tattered Cover Bestseller 2019
Are you tired of living a life dictated by others? What if you could break free and be who you are? If you've felt trapped by expectations and long to be free, FLAUNT! is the key to unlocking who you are, expressing yourself authentically, and choreographing your life your way.
Unleash the power within and embrace your true self with this transformative guide that empowers you to strip away societal expectations and discover your authentic, smart, sexy, and spiritual self. Through a unique blend of humor, wisdom, and actionable steps, you can uncover your deepest desires and build the confidence to live a life full of passion and purpose.
Buy Now on Amazon, or wherever books are sold.
It's Not Burnout, It's Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive, is the essential guide for burnout and betrayal relief. Packed with insight and practical tools, this book is a must-have for individuals, teams, and leaders alike. Available on Amazon. Learn more at www.itsnotburnoutitsbetrayal.com
#HealingAfterBetrayal #InfidelitySupport #BetrayalTraumaRecovery #SelfWorthAfterBetrayal #EmpoweredHealing #RiseAndReclaim #HeartbreakToHealing #RebuildingTrust #MindBodyHealing
#EnergyHealingForBetrayal #SelfLoveJourney #BreakFreeFromBetrayal #YouAreNotAlone MindsetShift #VisionFor2025 #FreeWorkshop #VisionBoard2025 #LoraCheadle #NewBookRelease
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Sunday Jan 26, 2025
Sunday Jan 26, 2025
Explore the intersection of betrayal recovery, inherited family trauma, and self-discovery in this powerful conversation with Lora Cheadle and Johanna Lynn. Together, they unpack how understanding the roots of inherited patterns can guide you toward freedom, healing, and thriving relationships.
Top Three Takeaways:
- Inherited Trauma: Learn how epigenetics influences behavior and how family patterns are unconsciously passed down through generations—and how to break free.
- Healing Narcissistic Dynamics: Understand the roots of narcissistic tendencies and discover how compassion and boundaries can coexist in relationships.
- Somatic Awareness: Discover the importance of staying embodied, how your body holds wisdom beyond your mind, and how tuning into sensations can transform emotional healing.
Resources Mentioned:
- Johanna Lynn’s Website: Learn more about her work and epigenetics.
- It Didn’t Start With You by Mark Wolynn: Essential reading on inherited family trauma.
- Free Betrayal Recovery Toolkit: Download at betrayalrecoveryguide.com.
About Johanna:
Johanna Lynn, founder of The Family Imprint Institute supports you to break free from the invisible patterns holding you back in love. With 18 years of diving deep into family dynamics, she reveals why we repeat painful relationship cycles and how to finally heal. Johanna's unique approach reveals the deeper “why” behind recurring challenges and transforms betrayal into an opportunity for profound personal growth.
About Lora:
Lora Cheadle is a betrayal recovery coach, attorney, and TEDx speaker who helps women heal from betrayal on an energetic, emotional, and ancestral level—while also providing legal guidance to help them navigate the practical complexities of infidelity and relationship transitions. She empowers women to rise from the ashes, reclaim their identity and self-worth, break free from repeating patterns, and step into their power with confidence, clarity, and grace.
After being shattered by her husband's fifteen years of infidelity, Lora knows firsthand what it takes to transform devastation into an invitation for healing, freedom, and joy. Her unique approach blends deep emotional healing with tangible legal and life strategies, guiding women beyond betrayal into lives of unapologetic confidence and purpose.
As the founder of Life Choreography Coaching & Advocacy, Lora provides comprehensive legal, emotional, intellectual, and spiritual support on demand. She believes that infidelity doesn’t have to be the end of the dream you poured your heart and soul into—it can be the beginning of a life filled with sovereignty, connection, and joy.
Licensed to practice law in California and Colorado, Lora is also a trauma-aware coach, clinical hypnotherapist, somatic attachment therapist, and advanced integrated energy practitioner. She is certified in yoga, mindfulness, group fitness, and personal training, bringing a holistic perspective to healing.
She is the author of FLAUNT! Drop Your Cover and Reveal Your Smart, Sexy, & Spiritual Self (an International Book Awards Finalist and Tattered Cover Bestseller) and It’s Not Burnout, It’s Betrayal: 5 Tools to FUEL UP & Thrive. She also hosts the podcast FLAUNT! Create a Life You Love After Infidelity and Betrayal.
Based in Colorado, Lora is an adventure-seeker who loves travel, a great book, and saying yes to life’s magic.
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Are you ready to Rise Up, Reclaim Your Story, & Reign as the Queen of your Life? Infidelity may have shaken your world, but it doesn’t define you. You are powerful. You are worthy. And you are capable of creating a future filled with confidence, clarity, and joy. I will walk by your side, giving you the perspective, permission, and wisdom to transform your betrayal into something profoundly empowering. Whether you work with me one-on-one or complete my Affair Recovery Programs from the privacy of your home, you’ll gain the tools to untangle yourself from the past, reclaim your power, and step boldly into your next chapter. Your healing starts now! Learn more at:
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